Author: mark_user

  • Simple Rules for Money Management

    When I was a kid, everyone would complained that they had “no money”. I observed that what killed people was the having the stress of “not having money” and not the actual money itself. So, I developed my own a life philosophy at an early age. I knew was never going to be rich and decided that what I truly wanted was not “money”, but to live stress free.

    Most people will make over $2,000,00 in their lifetime. Most people will tell you they have no money. Most people are not realistic and want a Champaign lifestyle on a beer budget. Most people spend money on an endless list of useless things like kids soccer practice, cookies that never get eaten, flowers that never get planted, and fancy out of town vacations. You can not afford it all. You do not get to have it all.

    To get ahead, you must train yourself to not purchase things unless you have the cash. Make no mistake, it is not easy. It is a skill that must be learned. The primary rule is “if you don’t have the cash in your pocket, you can’t have it”. It’s that simple.

    This is a short list of simple rules about money that I was taught, heard about, or learned through the school of hard knocks. They have served me well.

    Grandpa Harry R.’s Rules: It it not what you make that matters, it is what you save ….”

    1. Get up and go to work everyday!
    2. Have multiple sources of income (work two jobs, buy a rental property, etc.).
    3. Spend less money than what you make (and save the rest).

    Mark’s Rules:

    1. Pay cash for everything you buy. In particular, all small items. Do not use a credit card!
    2. Do not invest in things you do not understand.
    3. Pay yourself first. Before paying any bills, put $100+/paycheck into your emergency or long term accounts.
    4. Have an Emergency Account. Save at least $3000. You will eventually need a new hot water heater or to get your car fixed.
    5. Have a Long Term Account. Start saving for big long term purchases. You will eventually need a new car, or roof on your house. Save $100/month. Even if you can’t buy it outright, you will borrow less because you now have a significant down payment.
    6. Borrow less money. For large purchases (i.e. furniture) If you can’t pay cash outright, ask if 6 months same as cash is available.
    7. Use gift cards when you shop online. Buy a gift card at Kroger’s and get 4x fuel points. Then use the card to shop online. Now, your credit card is not linked to their system.
    8. Diversify. Make sure your money is not in just one bank. Open accounts at different banks & credit unions and ask your employer if they can divide your check and deposit to both.
  • Tips to Get Hired

    Here are a few tips I have learned over time.

    • Research before hand. What is the mission of the company. What is the company trying to accomplish.
    • What is the line of authority and what is your part in it.
    • Be humble.
    • Ask yourself, what is my goal here? To have a job, to get promoted?
    • Know your top 5 strengths.
    • Sell yourself. People tend to under value there accomplishments and over value others.
    • Have a frank and honest conversation with interviewer. What is you want to make? What are the work hours? What is the 401K match? When does the match money start?
    • Will I love what I am doing?
    • Interview existing workers who do the job.
    • Pose statements in the form of a questions.
  • Down Down Down … in a line of fire

    When I was 13, I had a friend who lived in the house behind me. Jimmy H. and I went camping at his brothers farm, somewhere in the country. We were on our own and totally unsupervised. I was ready to go. I had my new sleeping bag and everything. After the sun had set and we finished setting up our camp, Jimmy decided that it would be cool to see what a real line of fire would look like ( you know, like the movies). I tactfully agreed. We filled up an old coffee can full of kerosene from the lamp. The brilliant plan was, he would run very fast and pour a little out at a time. Thereby making a line of fire. Easy peasy.

    He walked to the fire and bent down to start pouring out the kerosene and the entire can went up instantly. He panicked and threw the can. It landed on my new sleeping bag. We grabbed it and tried to put it out. First, we threw it in the mud and jumped on it. Then, as a safety precaution, we filled up a few buckets of water from the creek and dumped it on the bag.

    After a long argument over who’s fault it was, I tried to fall asleep in a stinky, wet, and mud covered bag. I could not believe that he refused to give me his sleeping bag as compensation! I am pretty sure, I slept a total of 1 hour that entire weekend.

  • Candy Inflation

    When in first grade, one day I got lucky and found a penny in the school yard. I decided to go to a local store called HART pharmacy and buy myself a piece of penny candy. I grabbed a piece from the jar and put my penny on the counter. Mr. Hart looked at me and said, that will be 2 cents please. What??? I threw myself on the floor of his store and had a totally meltdown. I told him “this is called penny candy for a reason…. I know false advertising when I see it“.

    After letting me sulk for a while, Mr. Hart leaned over the counter and in a stern voice said Son, it’s called inflation, better get used to it. My 6 year old self rejected that concept completely.

  • Best 80’s Bookcase Games

    This is a list of what I think are the best of the 80s games that I played as a kid. I recently purchased a few on eBay, to see if I can get back that ole’ feeling. Now I just have to find someone to play with 🙁

    • Gamma World
    • D and D, 1st edition.
    • Top Secret
    • Boot Hill
    • Twilight 2000
    • Panzer Leader
    • Third Reich
    • Panzer Blitz
    • Tactics II
  • Lower, Lower, Lower Middle Class

    In second grade, my mom told me to not wear out my good shoes because they did not have money to buy new ones. Well, I must have played rough that day because the heel fell off. The entire next week, mom made me go to school in my bedroom slippers. On Saturday, after my dad got paid, she took me to the store and bought me new ones.

    I can attest, that there is no greater shame, then having to tell your classmates that you don’t have any shoes. I began to understand that my family was lower lower lower middle class.